It’s hard to know who we actually are.
It’s harder still to know what others think of us.
Oh, we have a good idea what we want
others to think about us, and we have very
clear ideas about how we think they should see us
based on the preponderance of what we have done
with them, to them, or for them, but in the end
our own thoughts will never carry the day.
We are as likely to be remembered for what we hav…